I have hesitated writing this post because I didn’t want anyone to think I am looking for emotional stroking. I am not!! However, that doesn’t mean I don’t enjoy it when someone says that I look younger than I am. What woman wouldn’t enjoy that and believe me when I say that hearing it never grows old. It hit me the other day when I was out and a younger woman asked me if I had a secret cream that I use or did I have a face lift. I have not had a face lift and you will see pigs fly by your kitchen window before you will hear about me letting a doctor unhitch my face and yank it up. Just the thought gives me the heebee geebees. However, this was not the first time a younger woman had asked so I decided to give some insight that I have gleaned on this topic to young women.
Genetics are a factor regarding the aging process but this article is about the behavior that we have absolute control over.
We all want to look younger, and more energetic as we get older. If you are a young woman and know that is how you will want age then it is time to take the steps now to ensure that you will look younger and be more energetic.
Begin now to eat healthy. Occasional junk food is okay but don’t make it the core of your diet. Do not make soda pop your fall back drink. It leads to dehydration which dries the skin out. Make water your fall back drink.
Next, I want to stress to young women to not be a sun magnet. We all need more Vitamin D as this country now has an epidemic of people not getting enough Vitamin D because of the use of sun screens. What I am saying is always get 15 to 30 minutes of sun a few times a week but the rest of the time use a sun screen with at least an SPF of 30. We all know that the damage that too much sun can do to your skin can lead to skin cancer but it also leads to the brown spots and broken blood vessels that can be seen on the face, as well as other parts of the body, of people who bake in the sun. There are some treatments for long term sun damage but they are expensive and do not replace l skin that has been allowed to age naturally. If you don’t tan naturally you weren’t mean to and all you do is damage your skin and increase your chances for skin cancer when you roast in the sun.
Smoking is the next issue regarding your face. We all know about the dangers of lung cancer but rarely does anyone mention what it does to your face. According to the Mayo Clinic smoking is a major cause of facial wrinkling. The nicotine in cigarettes leads to a narrowing of the blood vessels in the outer layer of the skin. The narrowing impairs blood flow to your skin which keeps the skin from getting the oxygen and important nutrients such as Vitamin A. The chemicals in tobacco smoke damage the collagen and elastin in your skin leading to early sagging of the skin. This paragraph alone should lead to cigarettes being put out left, right and center.
I am not against an occasional adult beverage but I drink alcohol rarely. I drink mainly water and water is the best fluid for your skin. Water helps to rid the body of toxins and that is always good for your skin. Too much alcohol leads to altered blood flow to the skin. That means the widening of capillaries and then the breaking of the capillaries which leads to those broken capillaries being obvious on the face. The dehydration that alcohol causes also leads to the sagging of skin.
We have all known older people who just don’t have a very happy demeanor. Their face often reflects that. Having a positive attitude and joyful spirit are essential to all aspects of our lives including our faces. Dopamine, endorphins and serotonin are all released when we smile. Some physicians even say that smiling can lower blood pressure and heart rate. Even during times of trouble we can all find something to smile about.
The woman I spoke to the other day asked me if I had a special concoction that I put on my face. I had to smile because it was such a simple answer. No, I have used Pond’s Moisturizing cream morning and night for over 45 years. I am sure there are other good moisturizers on the market but it is the one I prefer. I think moisturizing your face is essential. I also use a facial cleanser that gently exfoliates. I also use a liquid foundation with an SPF of 30. Nothing fancy or expensive.
To all the young women who read this I wish you all a long and prosperous life as you age gracefully and naturally. And truth be told – It never grows old to be told you look younger than you are!